Okay wow fuck today has to be the most horrible day of my life ever.
I'm 18, and the girlfriend is 17.
I went over to my girlfriends house earlier this afternoon you know, going to hangout for a bit, get laid and my whole life like flips upside down.
There's this really douchebag guy that she used to talk alot with that I hated, and his carwas parked in her driveway when i pulled up, so I'm like, okay... what the fuck?
I don't bother knocking or ringing the doorbell because she always lets me in and I'm good friends with her family, I run up the stairs and slowly creep the door open to surprise her you know like, "hey I'm here!!" but to my own disbelief, her and this #F are making out on her bed.
I was so furious I sprinted to the bed and decked him in the face as hard as I could about three times, words were exchanged as well as a few more fists and my girlfriend seperated us (he's lucky for that) and she told me to wait in her room and that she would explain everything as she walked him out.
I was really outraged two minutes later she comes back and she starts pulling bullshit excuses, telling me he made a move on her and that she swears she didn't want to or anything, we get in an argument and she pushed me and then slapped me, so I punched her in the face.
I really don't know what the hell I was thinking but she started crying, and she yelled at me to get out so I did I stormed off all fucking mad, even more mad for what I just did. I got home and went straight to my room and my mom comes in and she asked me why I've been so quiet(bear in mind i've been home for like 4 1/2 horus now) and I told her what happened, and I started crying.
My mom was really mad at me but really felt bad for me for what had happened, me and this girl dated for two years now...
So my mom wraps her arm around me and says how much she feels for me but how scared she was for me, then she said "You're moving with your auntie and uncle in Bel Air" I whistled for a cab and when it came near, the license plate said fresh and it had dice in the mirror. If anything I can say this cab is rare, but I thought 'Now forget it' - 'Yo homes to Bel Air'. I pulled up to the house about 7 or 8, and I yelled to the cabbie 'Yo homes smell ya later' I looked at my kingdom, I was finally there, to sit on my throne as the Prince of Bel Air.

Damn dude that is really horrible.

tbh I'm not sure whether that story is a joke or not.

I have a feeling the ending was thrown in there to lighten the mood a little. That sucks man. I don't know if I'd do the same in your situation but it's total bullshit for her to pull excuses out of her ass like that when it's rather obvious what was going on. Maybe give it a day or so to cool down and then try talking to her.

an extremely similar thing happened to me a few weeks ago, except we hadn't been dating as long as you guys, they were a lot further along than making out and she didn't pull me off him until she quite rightfully feared for his life. she slapped me and i called her a fucking whore. after that i stormed out and didn't speak to her again until last week.
bottom line is it fucking sucks dude. if you need someone to talk to i'm here.
and will smith is a legend

Holy shit dude...that sucks

Oh man thats horrible. I really hope that arse got a good beating...

The dude snogging your girlfriend deserved the beating, well done! But hitting her (even if it was rage of the moment) probably not the best thing but thats not the worse of the situation, the fact she cheated on you..... man that really sucks :\

good job on smashing her face in, some girls need to be taught a lesson, if she slapped you after what she did you have every right to punch her. If it makes you feel any better, when i was 18 my ex left me to go out with a 30 year old man lol, i thought it was hilarious.

I'm not going to sugarcoat anything, that's fucking horrible. If you still have feelings for her, it's worth allowing some time for things to cool down and then like D said, try talking to her.. Whatever you decide to do, I hope things work out for you in the end man..
I really don't want to sound like I'm trying to be the oh so wise one, (plus, of course, I don't really know anything about the situation), I know that people's opinions differ and different people deal with different situations, in different ways.. but he didn't deserve a beating at all. Violence may help some people deal with their anger.. but even those people know it doesn't actually solve anything. And you don't need me to tell you that hitting her was wrong either...
...I think this guy does though
QUOTE(triviummetal @ Dec 12 2008, 12:53 PM) [snapback]460200[/snapback]good job on smashing her face in, some girls need to be taught a lesson
I think that comment is disgraceful to be honest. Yes, some girls need to be taught a lesson.. but guys can't go round 'smashing girls (or other guys!) faces in' ... maybe one day you will learn that. I sure hope so.

QUOTE(triviummetal @ Dec 12 2008, 12:53 PM) [snapback]460200[/snapback]good job on smashing her face in, some girls need to be taught a lesson, if she slapped you after what she did you have every right to punch her. If it makes you feel any better, when i was 18 my ex left me to go out with a 30 year old man lol, i thought it was hilarious.
Dude... No. Just. fucking no.
Attacking a woman aint gonna make anything BETTER. It just makes the whole situation worse.
Yes, shes in the wrong for her actions but to physically attack her back... she could do him for assault even though it was in self defence! (Just because a woman slaps you doesnt give you the right to deck her back..... only if shes really trying to murder you, should a man use brute force on a woman!)